Owh..I have to make an advance celebration or postpone it. My sis would be having her operation to remove the stones in her gall bladder before the day and I think I would be restless thinking of her even though I proceed with it. I just can't bear knowing she is in the hospital and I am celebrating!

My mum was asked to rest for several hours last night. She was a bit weak around 4ish pm, and my dad brought her to ER. They took her BP and it was low, so they checked her ECG. The heartbeat was also slow. She was asked to rest till 12 ish when they took the last ECG. It was better but she is still weak, so the doctor released her 2 hours later.

Today she wast restless around 3ish pm cos she couldn't eat anything. She said she mite want some noodles or soto. I was kinda worried if I could drive with my condition. Called my sis and she was also having her late lunch, called my other sis, she was in the middle of the meeting but will go soon. So I decided to drive (tawakal) and stopped at CA Mohamad to buy some noodle and soto. Before that I text all my siblings and told them mum isn't feeling well and to bring some noodle or soups.

I was the first to come but mum was asleep so I just waited, then my 3rd sis came with some food so I decided to wake mum up. Came my 1st sis with some goodies as well. So we had 3 kinda noodles, 3 kinda soto, and murtabak. Mum ate only a little portion of d noodle n murtabak. When she was about done my eldest bro came with garlic bread and mum loves it. I saw my 3rd brother and wife and son came with some noodle and soup as well, and my 4th bro came with his children. By that time mum was all smiles and full. My 2nd bro wasn't there maybe my text didn't get to them. Also I didn't text my 4th sis cos iatinggal rumaha tas saja, but they were not aware kami berame2 kali so they didn't come.

I am the person and a daughter who is very caring for my parents and I believe when these things happen we should all be there so that's why I always texted everybody regardless asked or not. I like to think of myself as the 'girl with the bond' or the 'bonding girl'...hahaha.. but I think (and it's true wat my husband said) that the main thing mum was love deprived and it wasn't all about the food. She just misses her childern esp my brothers. Cos at least us girls we always call her and chat or visit her, but my bros are quite far from her. I hope mum will be better tomorrow. Mudahan sihat capat babu...amin!!